Monday, August 25, 2008

Swedish Cowboy Church accused of abusive practices

Talk To Action | Reclaiming Citizenship, History, and Faith

(Not a great subject, but it's the best headline that I've seen for quite a while. Who knew that there were "Cowboy churches"?)

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Sunday, August 24, 2008

Friday, August 22, 2008

Thursday, August 21, 2008

13 Magnificent Renewable Energy Successes and Failures

13 Magnificent Renewable Energy Successes and Failures : EcoWorldly

"If a woman hauls water for 4 hours a day, her chances of escaping poverty are low.
The cost of change: 15 cents"


Sometimes my struggles seem kind of trivial.

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Saturday, August 16, 2008

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Serious cute overload


Green Expander | Antares - Newest attraction for the Berlin Zoo

New baby tiger. Hot damn, that is adorable.

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YouTube - R Word

The Autistic Self-Advocacy Network's video response to the use of "retard" in Tropic Thunder.

YouTube - R Word



Over the past few days I've heard a lot of people try to defend the use of the word "retard". My guess is that Ben Stiller really didn't mean any harm by using it, but it's one of those words that has always made my skin crawl. In my society at least (Canada), it's so commonly used that it's a basic part of most kids' vocabulary.

I often think that it's similar to the "n" word, and I've had more than a few discussions with various owners of community websites about the hypocrisy of filtering the "n" word while "retard" is allowed to pass unchecked.

I'm not actually a huge fan of political correctness, but I also don't see how it helps anyone at all when derogatory language towards a certain group is a part of our society. I hope (but don't expect) that society sees my kids as human beings, but when I hear the word "retard" applied to them (none of them are actually mentally retarded, by the way, and it wouldn't matter in this context if they were), it's just another example of how we use language to control and put other people down. At this point in humanity's evolution, you would hope that we'd be moving beyond that.


And Ben Stiller's response:

While not denying that ridicule exists in the film, Wheeler, Shriver and the rest of the protesters miss the point of who is being made fun of, Stiller told MTV News.

"It's sort of edgy territory, but we felt that as long as the focus was on the actors who were trying to do something to be taken seriously that's going too far or wrong, that was where the humor would come from," Stiller insisted. "[The joke is on] actors reaching for roles in terms of hopefully winning awards."


While I understand what he was trying to do, it still seems like poor judgment, and I'd truly prefer my kids growing up in a society where this is not appropriate. Of course, I'd also like the sky to rain chocolate and wine and books, but that's just me.

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Monday, August 11, 2008

The 100 Most Common English Words

Codebox Software - The 100 Most Common English Words

This was hard. I'm relatively smart (when I've slept), and have a decent vocabulary (when I've slept), and I only got 52. I'm not sure what the criteria are, but it's interesting.

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xkcd - Google Maps


xkcd - A webcomic of romance, sarcasm, math, and language - By Randall Munroe



It's great to see xkcd getting back to the basics.

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Sunday, August 10, 2008

George Orwell's Diaries

August 9, 1938 � THE ORWELL PRIZE

Great! The Orwell Trust is re-publishing George Orwell's diary day by day, 70 years after it was written. I think that it's going to be fascinating.

Fun fact about Orwell that I didn't know...re-reading "The Nasty Bits" by Tony Bourdain the other day, Orwell apparently wrote a book about his experiences working in a restaurant. As a wanna-be foodie (who never has time to cook real food as everyone in my house eats different things), I want to read the book!

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Profiles in Manliness: Viktor Frankl

Profiles in Manliness: Viktor Frankl | The Art of Manliness

Fantastic article- how Viktor Frankl helped people to find meaning in life even while in a concentration camp. I'm looking forward to reading his book now.

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Saturday, August 09, 2008

I did like this ....Barack Roll

YouTube - Barack Roll

But I'm disappointed that they didn't include more real dancing footage. You can almost see his hips move in the first 2 seconds.

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Robot Playmates Help Autistic Kids With Social Skills

Robot Playmates Help Autistic Kids With Social Skills - DrKoop.com

Interesting, although something about it creeps me out on first reading.

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Writing Off Disabled Children

Editorial - Writing Off Disabled Children - Editorial - NYTimes.com

Very, very sad.

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Saturday, August 02, 2008

Moving...ugh!

I'm moving today...back in a few days!

Wish me luck- moving is almost as bad as hospital days were.

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My hometown's "Enabling Garden" (opens as .pdf)

geg-in-ontario-gardener-2008.pdf (application/pdf Object)

If there's anything better than "horticultural therapy", I'm not sure what it is. Gardening is one of the great joys of my life, and I'm glad that I live in a place which is using it as a resource.

(Funny story related to gardening- when I was in the midst of my teenage angst my parents took me to see our family doctor about my depression. Instead of putting me on meds, he gave me two choices- go to Africa and teach English for a couple of months, or dig a hole in the garden. I asked him how big the hole had to be, and he said to just keep digging it and filling it in and digging it again until I felt better.

I do miss doctors like that- while obviously all types of depression can't be cured by helping others or working with your hands, I still can't help but think that he had a good point. Oh, and he made house calls too!)

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Jenny McCarthy speaks out on Michael Savage - Access Hollywood - msnbc.com

Jenny McCarthy speaks out on Michael Savage - Access Hollywood - msnbc.com: "I think a great way for an apology is to be sat down and educated about it,” Jenny said. “I’d love to just quietly (sit down with him and) educate him on the facts. It was clear he doesn’t know anything about autism"


The irony is almost frightening.

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Thursday, July 31, 2008

A bit of a change

I stole this meme from Teeni, who I was drawn to by Casdok.


I am: Packing to move.
I think: That there is too much intolerance in the world.
I know: Very little about too many things.
I have: An amazing family.
I wish: That people understood science.
I hate: Stewed tomatoes and bras.
I miss: Horseback riding.
I fear: Giant spiders
I hear: Very little.
I smell: forest, and I think of my mom.
I crave: Sausage rolls from my favourite bakery.
I search: for meaning.
I wonder: When the Song of Ice and Fire series will be finished.
I regret: Not being cloned. If I was, Dylan would still be at home.
I love: Reading an amazing book for the first time.
I ache: Everywhere, at the moment.
I am not: As bitchy as I sometimes appear.
I believe: That if people are good to each other, most other things fall in line.
I dance: When I'm drunk.
I sing: When I'm alone.
I cry: Thinking about my cats.
I fight: When I'm frustrated.
I win: Every single day that my kids are still alive and healthy.
I lose: At chess.
I never: fail to be amazed at my kids.
I always: make coffee as soon as I get up.
I confuse: actions and meaning
I listen: to my cat purring on my chest
I can usually be found: on my front porch
I am scared: of who will look after my kids when I'm gone
I need: books
I am happy about: my upcoming marriage
I imagine: a world where kids don't hurt
I tag:"

Mother of Shrek

Blei

TBTAM


Trauma Queen


Grrraphics

Some of them I don't even know, but I read their blogs and would be interested to see what they say!


The blanks are



I am:
I think:
I know:
I have:
I wish:
I hate:
I miss:
I fear:
I hear:
I smell:
I crave:
I search:
I wonder:
I regret:
I love:
I ache:
I am not:
I believe:
I dance:
I sing:
I cry:
I fight:
I win:
I lose:
I never:
I always:
I confuse:
I listen:
I can usually be found:
I am scared:
I need:
I am happy about:
I imagine:
I tag:

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MYSTERY OF AUTISM BEGINS WITH DECIDING WHAT IT IS

MYSTERY OF AUTISM BEGINS WITH DECIDING WHAT IT IS - Yahoo! News

Dear Abby does a great job talking about autism.

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Thursday, July 24, 2008

Dying eight-year-old 'marries' his school sweetheart - Telegraph

Dying eight-year-old 'marries' his school sweetheart - Telegraph

I have no idea how I feel about this. Having a daughter who is a cancer survivor, I've seen too many kids die from our time in the oncology wards.

But there's just something "off" about it to me. That's a lot of pressure to put on a little girl.

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Size six Ont. woman dies after 23 incisions, liposuction: Court documents

Size six Ont. woman dies after 23 incisions, liposuction: Court documents

How horribly sad.

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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Obama’s Response to the New Yorker Cover, as Told to Larry King

It's nice to see someone who is not only articulate, but gracious as well. How long has it been since there has been someone in politics who not only doesn't fly off the handle when they are "insulted", but manages to turn it into another valid talking point?

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Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Patrick Stewart on Extras

YouTube - Patrick Stewart on Extras



I may have even blogged this before, but it's one of my favourite Stewart clips.

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WWdN: In Exile: this is awesome. awesome in pants!

WWdN: In Exile: this is awesome. awesome in pants!


Teaser from Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog on Vimeo.

This looks amazing.

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The Truth of the Situation � Odd One Out

The Truth of the Situation � Odd One Out

Autism and truth. I wish that this was one of the first posts that I'd run into after my kids were diagnosed.

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Thursday, June 26, 2008

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Showing my age

YouTube - Peter Gabriel & Kate Bush - Don't give up [Version 1]

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30 Useful Tools Everyone Should Own

30 Useful Tools Everyone Should Own | Marc and Angel Hack Life

Useful information- I don't disagree with many of them, although I'd put a chainsaw on the list just for those extra frustrating days.

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Saturday, June 21, 2008

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

This election is getting more embarassing to watch as it goes on


TRAIL BLAZERS Blog | The Dallas Morning News


I assume that vendors at a Republican State meeting would have to be approved by some party committee. I'd prefer to hope that some idiot just snuck these in.

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Saturday, June 14, 2008

YouTube - Stephen Lynch - D&D

This is just too much like too many people I knew in high school.

YouTube - Stephen Lynch - D&D

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Thursday, June 12, 2008

Wednesday, June 04, 2008

No charges to be filed in drowning of 5-year-old girl | autistic girl

No charges to be filed in drowning of 5-year-old girl | MyDesert.com | The Desert Sun

There is a petition at http://gfcfrecipes.blogspot.com/2008/06/autism-petition-5-year-old-girl-drowned.html

The family is going to be meeting with the head District Attorney, who can overrule the previous decision not to press charges. It sounds like there is ample room for discussion with him about the needs of autistic children. Who thinks that it's a good idea to leave a non-verbal child with the cognitive development of an 18-24 month old
alone in a pool?

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ZAC Browser - Zone for Autistic Children

Very cool! A grandfather developed a special web browser for his autistic grandson, and it's now available for free.

From an article about it:

The Zac Browser greatly simplifies the experience of using a computer. It seals off most Web sites from view, to block violent, sexual or otherwise adult-themed material. Instead it presents a hand-picked slate of choices from free, public Web sites, with an emphasis on educational games, music, videos and visually entertaining images, like a virtual aquarium.

Other programs for children already offer that "walled garden" approach to the Web. But LeSieur's browser aims to go further: It essentially takes over the computer and reduces the controls available for children like Zackary, who finds too many choices overwhelming.

For example, the Zac Browser disables extraneous keyboard buttons like "Print Screen" and turns off the right button on the mouse. That eliminates commands most children don't need anyway, and it reduces the chance an autistic child will lose confidence after making a counterproductive click.

Children using the Zac Browser select activities by clicking on bigger-than-normal icons, like a soccer ball for games and a stack of books for "stories." The Zac Browser also configures the view so no advertisements or other flashing distractions appear.

"We're trying to avoid aggressive or very dark or complicated Web sites, because it's all about self-esteem," LeSieur said from Las Vegas, where he lives. "If they're not under control, they will get easily frustrated."


It sounds like a great idea for some kids!

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Tuesday, June 03, 2008

Monday, June 02, 2008

Down Syndrome dolls


Wonderfully Unique Dolls

I honestly have no idea how to feel about these dolls. At first I thought "Great...more inclusion, dolls like real kids, etc." Until someone brought up the point that they might be used for other purposes. I hate second guessing myself, but I do it constantly.

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So daughter #2 came home from school today

They watched Planet Earth Seasonal Forests in school today. The conversation went something like this:


"It was an okay day. We watched Planet Earth- Seasonal Forests."
Me: "Did you see the part about the Taiga?"
Her: (with some scorn in her voice) "NO. Seasonal forests, not the Taiga."
Me: "Was it good?"
Her: "There was one part where one dog got a part caught inside another dog.
Me: "Okay. Was it interesting?"
Her: "Well, they got stuck together." (Big pause).

"That must be kind of awkward."


Me: "Hmmm." (Sometimes I'm just caught off guard).




I love puberty.

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70 Famous Dyslexics

70 Famous Dyslexics

It's an extremely pink site, but this is a great list. Dyslexia is no fun at all- it's nice to see some role models.

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What Happened to Ricky

What Happened to Ricky - WSJ.com

Family finds son 40 years after he is institutionalized. Thank God things aren't still like this. (Much more information in the article).



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YouTube - Surfwise: The Amazing True Odyssey of the Paskowitz Family



The children certainly do not seem enthralled with their experience. 9 children in a 24 ft. trailer?


And a fascinating interview with them, which is more positive than the documentary makes it seem. It's definitely an interesting family!

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Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Rachael Ray as an Islamic terrorist? Right.

Dunkin' Donuts yanks Rachael Ray ad - The Boston Globe

I might not particularly like her, but this is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read. It's scary when someone like Michelle Malkin has any influence at all.

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LI researcher pinpoints autistic behavior -- -- Newsday.com

LI researcher pinpoints autistic behavior -- -- Newsday.com

Fascinating. I sometimes get so caught up in the "politics" of the autism world that I forget how much very good research is going on right now.

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Monday, May 26, 2008

The New Wave of Autism Rights Activists -- New York Magazine

The New Wave of Autism Rights Activists -- New York Magazine

A very good look at not only the Neurodiversity movement, but all of the other "factions" in the autistic world.

After 12 years of being the mother of autistic children, I'd say that most of my frustration at this stage is just trying to navigate through all of the bitterness and factionalism to find actual information to help my kids live the happiest lives possible.

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Sunday, May 25, 2008

I didn't think that anything could make me laugh today

We are the World, done by Japanese impersonators

YouTube - we are the world in japan



via boingboing

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5 Year Old Autistic boy voted out of class


Teacher lets Morningside students vote out classmate, 5 : St. Lucie County : TCPalm


After each classmate was allowed to say what they didn't like about Barton's 5-year-old son, Alex, his Morningside Elementary teacher Wendy Portillo said they were going to take a vote, Barton said.

By a 14 to 2 margin, the students voted Alex — who is in the process of being diagnosed with autism — out of the class.


I am not sure why this teacher hasn't been fired yet. I can't imagine doing this at any age, but FIVE???? Isn't kindergarten when children are supposed to be learning how to get along with others?

The Autistic Self-Advocacy Network is encouraging people to contact the appropriate school authorities to express their outrage politely.

Morningside Elementary School Principal:
Mrs. Marcia Cully
cullym@stlucie.k12.fl.us
(772) 337-6730

St. Lucie County Schools Superintendent:
Michael J. Lannon
4204 Okeechobee Road
Ft. Pierce 34947-5414
Phone: 772/429-3925
FAX: 772/429-3916
e-mail: lannonm@stlucie.k12.fl.us

St. Lucie County School Board Chair:
Carol Hilson
772-519-0397
HilsonC@stlucie.k12.fl.us

Vice Chair:
Judith Miller
772-528-4545
MillerJ@stlucie.k12.fl.us



This is appalling- children deserve a better world than what they are being given. Not only Alex, but the children who were taught to "vote him off"...they deserve to be taught about acceptance and differences and tolerance and the wonderful gifts that people who are "different" bring to all of our lives.

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